my father sid
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08/03/30 12:25 | by admin ]
08/03/30 12:25 | by admin ]
My father had always said that there are four things a child needs —plenty of love, nourishing food, regular sleep , and lots of soap and water—and after those, what he needs most is some intelligent neglect.
我父亲总是说,一个孩子需要四样东西———充分的爱、富于营养的食物、有规律的睡眠、大量的肥皂和水———这些完了呢,他最需要的是一些明智的放任。
If you want your children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shouldres.
你若希望你的孩子总是脚踏实地, 就要让他们负些责任。
Happy are the families where the government of parents is the reign of affection, and obedience of the children the submission to love.
幸福的家庭,父母靠慈爱当家,孩子也是出于对父母的爱而顺从大人。
Be it ever so humble , there is no place like home.
金窝,银窝,不如自家的草窝。
We never know the love of the parents until we become parents ourselves.
不养儿不知父母恩。
The house of every one is to him as his castle and fortress.
每个人的家对他自己都像是城堡和要塞。
There is a skeleton in every house.
家家都有一本难念的经。
Every soil where he is well, is to a valiant man his natural country.
勇敢的人随遇而安,所到之处都是故乡。
Go where he will, the wise man is at home his harth the earth, his hall the azure dome.
明智者四海为家———大地是他的壁炉,苍穹是他的客厅。
我父亲总是说,一个孩子需要四样东西———充分的爱、富于营养的食物、有规律的睡眠、大量的肥皂和水———这些完了呢,他最需要的是一些明智的放任。
If you want your children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shouldres.
你若希望你的孩子总是脚踏实地, 就要让他们负些责任。
Happy are the families where the government of parents is the reign of affection, and obedience of the children the submission to love.
幸福的家庭,父母靠慈爱当家,孩子也是出于对父母的爱而顺从大人。
Be it ever so humble , there is no place like home.
金窝,银窝,不如自家的草窝。
We never know the love of the parents until we become parents ourselves.
不养儿不知父母恩。
The house of every one is to him as his castle and fortress.
每个人的家对他自己都像是城堡和要塞。
There is a skeleton in every house.
家家都有一本难念的经。
Every soil where he is well, is to a valiant man his natural country.
勇敢的人随遇而安,所到之处都是故乡。
Go where he will, the wise man is at home his harth the earth, his hall the azure dome.
明智者四海为家———大地是他的壁炉,苍穹是他的客厅。
Thanks for everything
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08/01/07 09:59 | by admin ]
08/01/07 09:59 | by admin ]
Thanks for everything
说声感谢不仅能让他人的世界更明媚,也会点亮你的生活。如果你觉得失落、不被关爱、不被欣赏,那就试着敞开你的心灵,也许这正是你最需要的。
In our life, we have rarely expressed our gratitude to the one who’d lived those years with us. In fact, we don’t have to wait for anniversaries to thank the ones closet to us—the ones so easily overlooked. If I have learned anything about giving thanks, it is this: give it now! while your feeling of appreciation is alive and sincere, act on it. Saying thanks is such an easy way to add to the world’s happiness.
Saying thanks not only brightens someone else’s world, it brightens yours. If you’re feeling left out, unloved or unappreciated, try reaching out to others. It may be just the medicine you need.
Of course, there are times when you can’t express gratitude immediately. In that case don’t let embarrassment sink you into silence-speak up the first time you have the chance.
Once a young minister, Mark Brian, was sent to a remote parish of Kwakiutl Indians in British Columbia. The Indians, he had been told, did not have a word for thank you. But Brian soon found that these people had exceptional generosity. Instead of saying thanks, it is their custom to return every favor with a favor of their own, and every kindness with an equal or superior kindness. They do their thanks.
I wonder if we had no words in our vocabulary for thank you, would we do a better job of communicating our gratitude? Would we be more responsive, more sensitive, more caring?
Thankfulness sets in motion a chain reaction that transforms people all around us—including ourselves. For no one ever misunderstands the melody of a grateful heart. Its message is universal; its lyrics transcend all earthly barriers; its music touches the heavens.
说声感谢不仅能让他人的世界更明媚,也会点亮你的生活。如果你觉得失落、不被关爱、不被欣赏,那就试着敞开你的心灵,也许这正是你最需要的。
In our life, we have rarely expressed our gratitude to the one who’d lived those years with us. In fact, we don’t have to wait for anniversaries to thank the ones closet to us—the ones so easily overlooked. If I have learned anything about giving thanks, it is this: give it now! while your feeling of appreciation is alive and sincere, act on it. Saying thanks is such an easy way to add to the world’s happiness.
Saying thanks not only brightens someone else’s world, it brightens yours. If you’re feeling left out, unloved or unappreciated, try reaching out to others. It may be just the medicine you need.
Of course, there are times when you can’t express gratitude immediately. In that case don’t let embarrassment sink you into silence-speak up the first time you have the chance.
Once a young minister, Mark Brian, was sent to a remote parish of Kwakiutl Indians in British Columbia. The Indians, he had been told, did not have a word for thank you. But Brian soon found that these people had exceptional generosity. Instead of saying thanks, it is their custom to return every favor with a favor of their own, and every kindness with an equal or superior kindness. They do their thanks.
I wonder if we had no words in our vocabulary for thank you, would we do a better job of communicating our gratitude? Would we be more responsive, more sensitive, more caring?
Thankfulness sets in motion a chain reaction that transforms people all around us—including ourselves. For no one ever misunderstands the melody of a grateful heart. Its message is universal; its lyrics transcend all earthly barriers; its music touches the heavens.
让我们微笑 Let's Smile
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07/11/10 17:17 | by admin ]
07/11/10 17:17 | by admin ]
The thing that goes the farthest toward making life worthwhile,
That costs the least and does the most, is just a pleasant smile.
The smile that bubbles from the heart that loves its fellow men,
Will drive away the clouds of gloom and coax the sun again.
It’s full of worth and goodness, too, with manly kindness blent;
It’s worth a million dollars, and it doesn’t cost a cent.
There is no room for sadness when we see a cheery smile;
It always has the same good look; it’s never out of style;
It nerves us on to try again when failure makes us blue;
The dimples of encouragement are good for me and you.
It pays the highest interest — for it is merely lent;
It’s worth a million dollars, and it doesn’t cost a cent.
A smile comes very easy — you can wrinkle up with cheer,
A hundred times before you can squeeze out a salty tear;
It ripples out, moreover, to the heartstrings that will tug,
And always leaves an echo that is very like a hug.
So, smile away! Folks understand what by a smile is meant;
It’s worth a million dollars, and it doesn’t cost a cent.
引用
那最能赋予生命价值、代价最廉而回报最多的东西,
不过一个令人心畅的微笑而已。
由衷地热爱同胞的微笑,
会驱走心头阴郁的乌云,心底收获一轮夕阳。
它充满价值和美好,混合着坚毅的仁爱之心;
它价值连城却不花一文。
当我们看到喜悦的微笑,忧伤就会一扫而光;
它始终面容姣好,永不落伍;
失败令我们沮丧之时,它鼓励我们再次尝试;
鼓励的笑靥于你我大有裨益。
它支付的利息高昂无比──只因它是种借贷形式;
它价值连城却不花一文。
来一个微笑很容易──嘴角欢快翘起来,
你能百次微笑,可难得挤出一滴泪;
它的涟漪深深波及心弦,
总会留下反响,宛若拥抱。
继续微笑吧!谁都懂得它意味着什么;
它价值连城却不花一文。
不过一个令人心畅的微笑而已。
由衷地热爱同胞的微笑,
会驱走心头阴郁的乌云,心底收获一轮夕阳。
它充满价值和美好,混合着坚毅的仁爱之心;
它价值连城却不花一文。
当我们看到喜悦的微笑,忧伤就会一扫而光;
它始终面容姣好,永不落伍;
失败令我们沮丧之时,它鼓励我们再次尝试;
鼓励的笑靥于你我大有裨益。
它支付的利息高昂无比──只因它是种借贷形式;
它价值连城却不花一文。
来一个微笑很容易──嘴角欢快翘起来,
你能百次微笑,可难得挤出一滴泪;
它的涟漪深深波及心弦,
总会留下反响,宛若拥抱。
继续微笑吧!谁都懂得它意味着什么;
它价值连城却不花一文。
The flame of love 爱的火焰
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07/10/16 21:59 | by admin ]
07/10/16 21:59 | by admin ]
拥有了一份好的工作、一个好的身体、一笔大大的财富,但你仍然感受不到幸福快乐?这是为什么?答案只有一个字,爱。没有爱的人生好比没有灵魂的躯体。
爱给予了生活的意义。幸运的人得到爱并能让那爱的火花永远燃烧,这不是一天或几个月的事。爱是生活,生活也是爱......
Suppose you have everything; a good job, good health, good reputation, good relationships and lot of money to spend. But still there is something missing from your life. Guess what? The LOVE. It is not something which you should ignore. Life without love is just like body without soul.
Love gives meaning to life as without love life is meaningless. Lucky is the person who gets love and keeps the flames of love burning for ever. It is not a matter of days or months. Love is for life and life is for love.
Short term love encounters are not helpful at all. Be sincere with your body and soul. Indulge in serious life long loving relationship and live a healthy, happy and joyful life.
It is easy to fell in love but difficult to keep the flames of love burning. Before indulging in serious long term love relationships be sure that the person you love is also sincere with you. A selfish person can make your life miserable. If this is the case with you then try to get rid of that person as soon as possible.
Most people do not give importance to their love life as they give importance to their professional life. In most cases, people sacrifice their love life at the cost of their profession. This is a bad choice which ruins the whole life. A sensible balance between the two is necessary in order to enjoy life in its entirety. Do not deprive yourself of the love you need.
People part their ways after living together for years and years. Though this looks strange but is the obvious result of ignoring the genuine complaints and grievances of the other. Sometimes a sincere apology, gentle touch, or a friendly kiss is enough to put your love life on track. However, when deep differences develop between the two then professional consultation is necessary. Do everything to bring back love to your life, if it is lost.
In order to make the journey of life more exciting and enjoyable, you need a loving and caring person with whom you can share your values, dreams, fantasies, joys and jokes. In difficult times of anxiety, sorrow, distress or loss of near and dear ones this person should stand firm besides you and console you in every possible manner.
Love your life and love the person who is in your life. Keep the flames of love burning to live a great, great love life.
Discuss this article with your loved one and carefully listen what he/she says. This can give you a clue of his/her inner sentiments and the depth of love for you. Also avail this opportunity to renew your love life with a new passion and commitment.
爱给予了生活的意义。幸运的人得到爱并能让那爱的火花永远燃烧,这不是一天或几个月的事。爱是生活,生活也是爱......
Suppose you have everything; a good job, good health, good reputation, good relationships and lot of money to spend. But still there is something missing from your life. Guess what? The LOVE. It is not something which you should ignore. Life without love is just like body without soul.
Love gives meaning to life as without love life is meaningless. Lucky is the person who gets love and keeps the flames of love burning for ever. It is not a matter of days or months. Love is for life and life is for love.
Short term love encounters are not helpful at all. Be sincere with your body and soul. Indulge in serious life long loving relationship and live a healthy, happy and joyful life.
It is easy to fell in love but difficult to keep the flames of love burning. Before indulging in serious long term love relationships be sure that the person you love is also sincere with you. A selfish person can make your life miserable. If this is the case with you then try to get rid of that person as soon as possible.
Most people do not give importance to their love life as they give importance to their professional life. In most cases, people sacrifice their love life at the cost of their profession. This is a bad choice which ruins the whole life. A sensible balance between the two is necessary in order to enjoy life in its entirety. Do not deprive yourself of the love you need.
People part their ways after living together for years and years. Though this looks strange but is the obvious result of ignoring the genuine complaints and grievances of the other. Sometimes a sincere apology, gentle touch, or a friendly kiss is enough to put your love life on track. However, when deep differences develop between the two then professional consultation is necessary. Do everything to bring back love to your life, if it is lost.
In order to make the journey of life more exciting and enjoyable, you need a loving and caring person with whom you can share your values, dreams, fantasies, joys and jokes. In difficult times of anxiety, sorrow, distress or loss of near and dear ones this person should stand firm besides you and console you in every possible manner.
Love your life and love the person who is in your life. Keep the flames of love burning to live a great, great love life.
Discuss this article with your loved one and carefully listen what he/she says. This can give you a clue of his/her inner sentiments and the depth of love for you. Also avail this opportunity to renew your love life with a new passion and commitment.
自由飞翔 Free to soar
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07/10/16 21:58 | by admin ]
07/10/16 21:58 | by admin ]
上天让我经历逆境,体验束缚的滋味,并定下规则约束我们,让我们从中成长起来,获得人生的力量……
One windy spring day, I observed young people having fun using the wind to fly their kites. Multicolored creations of varying shapes and sizes filled the skies like beautiful birds darting and dancing. As the strong winds gusted against the kites, a string kept them in check.
Instead of blowing away with the wind, they arose against it to achieve great heights. They shook and pulled, but the restraining string and the cumbersome tail kept them in tow, facing upward and against the wind. As the kites struggled and kept them in tow, facing upward and against the wind. As the kites struggled and trembled against the string, they seemed to say,” Let me go! Let me go! I want to be free!” they soared beautifully even as they fought the restriction of the string. Finally, one of the kites succeeded in breaking loose. “Free at last,” it seemed to say. “Free to fly with the wind.”
Yet freedom from restraint simply put it at the mercy of an unsympathetic breeze. It fluttered ungracefully to the ground and landed in a tangled mass of weeds and string against a dead bush. ”Free at last”, free to lie powerless in the dirt, to be blown helplessly along the ground, and to lodge lifeless against the first obstruction.
How much like kites we sometimes are. The heaven gives us adversity and restrictions, rules to follow from which we can grow and gain strength. Restraint is a necessary counterpart to the winds of opposition. Some of us tug at the rules so hard that we never soar to reach the heights we might have obtained. We keep part of the commandment and never rise high enough to get our tails off the ground.
Let us each rise to the great heights, recognizing that some of the restraints that we may chafe under are actually the steadying force that helps us ascend and achieve.
One windy spring day, I observed young people having fun using the wind to fly their kites. Multicolored creations of varying shapes and sizes filled the skies like beautiful birds darting and dancing. As the strong winds gusted against the kites, a string kept them in check.
Instead of blowing away with the wind, they arose against it to achieve great heights. They shook and pulled, but the restraining string and the cumbersome tail kept them in tow, facing upward and against the wind. As the kites struggled and kept them in tow, facing upward and against the wind. As the kites struggled and trembled against the string, they seemed to say,” Let me go! Let me go! I want to be free!” they soared beautifully even as they fought the restriction of the string. Finally, one of the kites succeeded in breaking loose. “Free at last,” it seemed to say. “Free to fly with the wind.”
Yet freedom from restraint simply put it at the mercy of an unsympathetic breeze. It fluttered ungracefully to the ground and landed in a tangled mass of weeds and string against a dead bush. ”Free at last”, free to lie powerless in the dirt, to be blown helplessly along the ground, and to lodge lifeless against the first obstruction.
How much like kites we sometimes are. The heaven gives us adversity and restrictions, rules to follow from which we can grow and gain strength. Restraint is a necessary counterpart to the winds of opposition. Some of us tug at the rules so hard that we never soar to reach the heights we might have obtained. We keep part of the commandment and never rise high enough to get our tails off the ground.
Let us each rise to the great heights, recognizing that some of the restraints that we may chafe under are actually the steadying force that helps us ascend and achieve.



