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We are all naturally attracted to people with ideas,
beliefs and interests like our own. Similarly, we
feel comfortable with people with physical qualities
similar as ours.--71--

You may have noticed about how people who live or work --72--
closely together come to behave in a similar way.
Unconsciously we copy these we are close to or love --73--
or admire. So a sportsman’s individual way of walking
with raised shoulders is imitated by an admired fan; --74--
a pair or lovers both shake their heads in the same
way; an employer finds himself duplicating his boss’s --75--
habit of wagging (摆动) a pen between his fingers while thinking.

In every case, the influential person may consciously --76--
notice the imitation but he will feel comfortably in --77--
its presence. And if he does notice the matching of
his gestures or movements, he finds it pleasing he
is influencing people: they are drawn to them.--78--

Sensitive people have been mirroring their friend and --79--
acquaintances all their lives., and winning affection
and respect in this way without aware of their methods. --80--
Now, for people who want to win agreement or trust,
affection or sympathy, some psychologists recommend
the deliberate use of physical imitation.